Concerned about the future of HomeExchange

Hello everyone,

I was considering reaching out privately to the support team, but I decided it was much better to start a discussion here to check whether this is just happening to us or if you are experiencing it too.

As members of the platform for over 4 years, we have noticed that the quality of our guests has been steadily declining, to the point of exceeding the threshold of unacceptability. In our early years, we deeply appreciated the mutual respect between members, something that truly built a sense of community. For us, the opportunity to stay in another member’s home was something we celebrated with great appreciation and humility. Furthermore, in our exchanges, as a personal touch, we frequently offer a small gift from our region (olive oil, chocolate, handcrafted items, etc.).

During our first two years, the feeling of belonging was mutual: we offered warmth and hospitality, and the community responded in kind—with a few exceptions, as always happens. However, we regret to say that over the last two years, the experience has turned into quite the opposite. Currently, the trend is fairly negative, bordering on toxic.

Below, I am going to describe a series of situations that might resonate with you:

  • We have seen a significant increase in the number of guests who view the platform as a cheap alternative to avoid paying for accommodation. This is reflected in their behavior, even going so far as to use terms like “paying” with GP.

  • Some guests who manage to pass through our filter—even though we don’t make it easy, as we have always requested a video call before finalizing since our very first exchange, which isn’t that common—view their booking as if it were an Airbnb. They expect us, as hosts, to meet five-star quality standards as if they were paying customers.

  • On top of this, there is a total lack of respect for our house rules—in many cases, without even having read them (we know this because we include an “easter egg”). Some of those who do pass our filter make us feel uncomfortable once they arrive at the apartment, forcing us to constantly repeat things that should have been clear with just a little consideration. More importantly, this creates a tense atmosphere, because honestly, nobody likes having to play warden while on vacation.

  • Likewise, the massive amount of time we used to invest in responding to incoming requests with care has vanished. We have grown tired of generic copy-and-paste messages, as well as the numerous requests asking for things we explicitly clarify in our description, which they clearly haven’t read.

  • In some cases, we have had guests who, looking for any excuse right before the exchange, try to put us in a difficult situation to trigger HomeExchange’s guarantee policy—perhaps hoping to secure a nice vacation in a €105/night hotel instead of our “humble” apartment.

85 exchanges make for a lot of stories. Despite all this, we have managed to maintain a strong rating profile, though unfortunately, in many recent cases, this has required managing situations through pure hypocrisy.

After reflecting on these events, my personal view is that the platform—being a for-profit company managed by Tukazza! SAS, regardless of its B CORP certification—has drastically increased its efforts to grow the paying user base and boost profits for shareholders, thereby sacrificing quality. A textbook strategy.

What bothers me most on a personal level is that we—the members—and our homes are the true assets of the platform. The platform “creates” points out of thin air when you sign up so you can, at the very least, make your first trip at a fraction of the cost of traditional accommodation.

There are many ways to fix this. One would be to set higher barriers to entry, such as making it a mandatory requirement to host before being able to complete your first exchange as a guest. This simple measure would allow for far better quality control, though it would also dramatically limit revenue, which is why they aren’t interested.

I am opening this debate so you also have the opportunity to share your thoughts and potential solutions. I deeply value the community that has allowed me to explore the world like never before, and I want to protect its continuity against declining quality standards driven by financial interests—which, in the case of many community-driven platforms, marks the beginning of the end.

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First of all, thank you for sharing your thoughts so openly, and above all, thank you for your 4+ years and 85 exchanges with us. Long-standing members like you are truly the backbone of HomeExchange.

We couldn’t agree more with the heart of your message: HomeExchange is all about human connection, hospitality, and mutual respect.

Hearing that you’ve felt a shift in how some members behave is something we genuinely care about. While we want to open the doors of home swapping to more families worldwide, protecting our core values and the spirit of the community is always our top priority. We are constantly working behind the scenes—from how we welcome new members to how we educate them on community etiquette—to make sure everyone understands what it really means to share a home.

Constructive discussions like this are super valuable to keep our spirit strong. Thanks again for caring so deeply about the community.

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I agree. As a long time HE member I am sensing the same trends. We do not want to host guests against points but are getting requests for it all the time, and even members complaining that we only want to exchange, not host with points.

I like your suggestion about not giving new members points just for joining. The guestpoints are now more a type of cash, and getting them when signing up is like the “free rolls” you get when joining an online casino.

I don’t have any experience yet with hosting, hence can’t confirm first hand, however the reason I’ve yet to host anyone after 1.5 years, is that except 1, every single request I’ve received has ignored the minimum number of nights I’ve stated.

I got tired of responding to each of them, hence my response rate has taken a hit. E.g. it’s easier to let the auto-decline do its thing after 4 days than rejecting yet another request I can’t/won’t host anyway. And the only request that did honour my min. number of days proposed more people to stay in my apartment than I have beds for. And the number of beds is stated as well in my description.

In addition, of the requests I’ve received, I’ve had e.g. a father looking for his student age son and his buddies to stay at my place last minute (no, thank you), as well as families with young children (my listing makes it clear to be mindful of the neighbours wrt noise due to this being an old apartment).

All in all, after 1.5 years I’ve not once yet had someone stay in my house via HE.